Is there a better way to spend the holidays together?

How have you dealt with special days like Christmas, Thanksgiving, July Fourth, Easter, Memorial Day and birthdays? Most of us might think only in terms of the way we grew up, perhaps with Mom and Dad, and expect these occasions to be celebrated the same way.

The only problem, now that you're married, is whose celebration of the holidays you're going to adopt. One husband and wife, like many others, found themselves in a quandary: Where should they go for Thanksgiving? In an effort to respect the desires of both sets of parents and a grandmother, they ended up rushing from house to house. The result: They didn't enjoy the food or the time together.  read more