How can parents stop enabling their grown children?

Enabling parents know that we live either smack dab in the middle of crisis or we're simply in between crises, waiting for the other shoe to drop. Every time the phone rings at night, we are catapulted to a place of despair. Will it be our adult child in a drunken stupor, will it be the police or will it be the morgue?


Let's look at these two ways we live, and what we need to do to stop enabling and set boundaries for our adult children:
1. In between crises.
2. In crisis mode.  read more